If you were having a special someone over for dinner, you would probably be planning the evening; perhaps jotting down a menu of what you were going to serve, then shopping for the food and drink. You might tidy up the house before setting the table and think about what you were going to wear. Everything leading up to your gleeful anticipation of this person walking through the door would be well thought out, and you would most likely move about that day with an assured expectation of the amazing time you were going to have together.

Many of us can see ourselves in this scenario. We wouldn’t wait until our special someone came through the door to start preparing. In fact, we wouldn't be waiting at all; we would be doing. So why then wouldn't a majority of us engage in this same behavior when we want a new special someone to come into our lives?

It makes sense to stop searching or sitting around for "a" person when we can instead prepare for “the” person our souls know we are meant to be with. Decidedly, we need to be as ready and as good for him or her as we want them to be for us, too, so, from messy drawers and closets to those parts of our bodies we cover and don't want anyone to see … there is so much we can do now to get our emotions, physiques, finances, mental attitude, and homes ready for this amazing union. By making every movement throughout our day mimic what we would do if we were in this relationship, we are sending out a signal soul to soul that says, I’m ready for you! Realize that we can't help but walk into a future we are preparing for, and the mere act of preparing sends out the perfect message of willingness and readiness. So, if a relationship is what you crave, start getting ready because most likely, the person you have been waiting for has also been waiting for you.

Donna Martini is a wellness coach, activist, radio show host, and author. A long-time student of all aspects of wellness, as well as energy manipulation, she has been striving for decades to promote and teach healthy lifestyle practices to businesses, schools, government entities, NFPs, and homes throughout America. Most recently she has broadened her media coverage to music and video. With her latest release called, “One Nation’s Heart,” she hopes to spread the message of unity between our political parties and prompt a more peaceful existence and future for our children and ourselves.