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Help Wanted: Apply Within “You’ve been a great employee… a real asset to the department, and the company. We really need you, but we just don’t have the money in the budget to keep you here. I’m sorry. If things turn around we’ll give you a call. Good luck to you.” We have a tendency to identify our self with our achievements and possessions. It seems perfectly natural to feel shame when we’ve lost our job, as if we’re a total failure. And if we’re out of work for awhile and our material acquisitions begin to vanish, our status seems diminished as well, and our entire self esteem can decay right before our eyes. But this doesn’t have to be the case. There is something inside of us that may be completely untapped. That dream we’ve always had, but never had the opportunity to develop: our life’s purpose. This is a difficult economy to find a job in. It’s also difficult to start up a business right now… but when you already have a job that pays the bills, you may not be able to quit it to follow your dreams. If you’re out of work and can’t find another job, this may be that once in a lifetime chance to fully explore the possibilities, and even get help from those tax dollars you’ve been complaining about paying all these years! Wayne Dyer points out that you know when you’re living your life’s purpose when you feel some deep sense of satisfaction in what you’re working at. When confronted by a caller who declared, “We have to worry about the bills, right?”, Eckhart Tolle’s response was, “No, we don’t have to worry about the bills. We do have to pay the bills, but we don’t have to worry about them.” So how do we shift from worrying to being at peace, when our circumstances seem so precarious? When you are living on purpose, you have enthusiasm, you feel alive. It takes some inner work to move past the fear, into confidence. You need to believe in yourself and the benefit you can bring to others when you’re pursuing your life’s purpose. You may not be in a position to abandon the work that’s been paying the bills all along. As they say, don’t quit your day job. But while you continue to search for a new job, take the opportunity to explore your truest purpose. Start a daily meditative practice to clear out the negativity and replace it with some greater motivation to benefit others by pursuing your dreams. What seems like a complete disaster may turn out to be the gift of a lifetime!
Alan Powitz is a free lance writer and editor, available for all forms of corporate promotional materials. He is also a therapist, using dharma principles, hypnosis, and tools derived from The Option Process and EFT, to help clients overcome fear, anger, issues with relationships, family, work, self confidence, and other life challenges. Visit his website at www.TrulyAwake.com, or contact him at info@TrulyAwake.com or 516-528-8944.
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