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The
Passion Solution
by Alan Cohen Haiku, HI
One of my clients is a manager for a large corporation. During a recent
reorganization of her company, she was assigned to manage a department
of engineers. When she interviewed the staff to prepare for their first
meeting, they informed her that they had never had a successful meeting
in their lives. (Does this sound familiar to you?)
The manager realized she had her work cut out for her, so she decided
to take an unusual tack. When the time came during the meeting for her
to assign jobs for a new project, rather than assigning them according
to the staffs skill or history, she assigned them according to passion.
She asked each engineer which job he or she would most enjoy doing, and
those were the jobs they received. The engineers were dazed and grateful.
They walked out of the meeting smiling and shaking hands, and thanked
the manager for their first successful meeting.
Desire is a key element of success. If you dont want to be doing
what you are doing, you will likely sabotage your efforts before you begin.
If you enjoy what you are doing, your success is pretty well assured.
Skills can be learned; enthusiasm is far harder to manufacture. If it
is there, you can fan it; if it is not, I wouldnt spend a lot of
time trying. If I had two employment applicants, one of whom was highly
skilled but not motivated, and another with lesser skills but who was
highly motivated, I would choose the latter in a heartbeat.
I have learned a great deal observing the people and organizations who
sponsor my seminars. I am amazed at how effective someone with little
means but a lot of enthusiasm can be, and how ineffective groups with
rich resources but little passion can be. I have shown up at large churches
where the person assigned to organize my event does not know me well or
understand or appreciate what I do, and a tiny crowd shows up. Then I
go to another city to present a seminar sponsored by someone who has attended
one of my programs and had a life-changing experience, and that person
has single-handedly attracted hundreds of people. True passion is absolutely
magnetic, and enrolls consumers by virtue of energy more than behavior.
An artist asked a business consultant how much she should charge for her
paintings. Thats easy, the consultant answered. Charge
the most for the paintings you felt most passionate while creating. Charge
the least for the paintings you didnt feel a lot while creating.
The consultant understood one of the key elements of sales: People are
not so much buying a commodity; they are buying a feeling. Most people
are hungry for life force sometimes starving so when they
see a painting, hear a song, try on a garment, or peruse a house for sale,
they are seeking to fill their soul. When you imbue your soul in your
work, potential customers sense that and are drawn to it. They are paying
you not so much for your product, but for the energy in your product,
and that you radiate in your interaction with them.
A group of psychologists did an experiment to determine what kind of music
has the most profound effect on listeners. They invited different musicians
to play different kinds of music before a live audience, and interviewed
the audience about which music stirred them the most. The experimenters
found that no kind of music affected the audience more profoundly than
another. The crucial factor, they discovered, was the passion with which
the musician performed. The musicians who were really into their music
turned the audience on more than the music itself. The audience wanted
to feel spirit, and the musicians who were most alive delivered.
If you are working somewhere you would rather not be, or someone is working
for you who would rather not be there, dont settle for a passionless
workplace. My friend Sally hired an office assistant, Brad, who was lackluster.
Brad showed up late on his first day of work, maintained that pattern,
found reasons to get out of the office, and didnt give his job a
moments thought the instant he left the office. Sally wanted to
give Brad a chance and tried in many ways to motivate him, with little
effect. Then Brad got involved in community theatre and enjoyed it so
much that he began to coordinate a play _ during his work time in Sallys
office. Finally Sally told Brad, You have shown more passion for
this play than you have shown for this job in all the time you have been
here. I want you to be in your right place to let your passion flow, which
is obviously not this position. I want someone in this job who really
wants to be here. Lets free each other to both have what we want.
Soon Sally attracted an office assistant who really worked, and Brad developed
his acting career. A happy ending ensued when everyone was true to their
passion.
While you may have explored many reasonable logistical answers to your
business, relationships, and health issues, you may have overlooked one
key question that might lead you where you want to go more quickly than
all the others: Where does your passion live? Tell the truth
about where your life force flows, and you may find yourself there rather
quickly.
Alan Cohen is the author of many popular inspirational books, including
the best-selling The Dragon Doesnt Live Here Anymore
and Why Your Life Sucks and What You can do about It. Join
Alan this August 2127 in Fiji for a life-changing Mastery Training.
For information on this program or to receive Alans daily inspirational
quote and monthly newsletter, visit www.alancohen.com,
email info@alancohen.com,
or phone 1-800-568-3079.
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